Njengoba kunezincwadi ezingaphezu kuka-60 ezishicilelwe nempumelelo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, umbhali othengisa kakhulu u-Jhonatas Nilson ukhulula ethi *Indodana I didn't Love* , idrama yomndeni ekhuluma ngosizi, ukwenqatshwa, nethemba. Indaba ilandela uVincenzo, okwathi ngemva kwenhlekelele yomndeni, waphoqeleka ukuba aqale impilo yakhe futhi alungise isikhathi esilahlekile nendodana yakhe uGiovanni D'Angelo, ojwayele ukubhekana nokungabikho kobaba.
Ngokulandisa kwe-visceral nebucayi, umbhali, oneziqu zePsychology, wethula umbono ojulile ngamandla othando namandla othando okusinda ekuhlukumezekeni okuhlukahlukene. Emisebenzini yakhe, ufuna ukufaka izindikimba mayelana nobunkimbinkimbi bobudlelwano babantu, enze isimo esingokoqobo esivumela abafundi ukuthi baxhumane nempilo yangaphakathi yabalingiswa.
Engxoxweni, uJhonatas Nilson uxoxe ngokugqugquzelwa kwetulo futhi wakhuluma ngokubaluleka kwenkundla yezokuxhumana ekwandiseni umsebenzi wokubhala. Kuhlole ngezansi:
1. Yini ekugqugquzele ukuba ukhulume ngezindikimba ezinjengosizi, ukwenqatshwa, kanye nethemba ebudlelwaneni bobaba nendodana encwadini ethi “Indodana Engangiyithandanga”?
U-Jhonatas Nilson: Ugqozi luvela emibuzweni eminingana enganginayo mayelana nobunzima bobudlelwane obungenzeka phakathi kukababa ongekho nendodana efuna ukwamukelwa. Kwaphela isikhathi ngingabaza ukuyiqala le ndaba ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi ngeke ngikwazi ukuyiqeda ngenxa yesisindo somzwelo esasihilelekile. Kodwa, ngokuzivumela ukuba ngiyihlole, ngajula emizweni, ikakhulukazi leyo yosizi nokwaliwa—ngaze ngakhala izikhathi eziningana phakathi nenqubo yokubhala. Namuhla, ngijabule kakhulu ngokuqhubekela phambili futhi ngibona indlela abafundi abaxhumene ngayo nale ndaba engithinte ngokujule kangaka.
2. Yiziphi izici zengqondo ozihlanganisayo endabeni ukuze uhlole umthelela wokulahlwa nokubuyisana komndeni?
JN: Njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ngihlale ngizibuza ukuthi ngingabhekana kanjani nezindikimba zangempela nezishubile mayelana nemizwa yomuntu. NgeNdodana Ngangingathandi , kwakungehlukile. Ukusebenzisana ngakunye phakathi kwama-protagonist kuveza izingqimba zobuhlungu, ukusesha ukugunyazwa, kanye nezindlela zokuzivikela esizithuthukisayo lapho sizizwa sinqatshiwe. Ngalezi zici, bengifuna ukukhombisa ukuthi iziqalo ezintsha zingenzeka hhayi kuphela ngothando, kodwa ngokuzimisela ukuguquka kusuka ngaphakathi kuye ngaphandle.
3- Umlingiswa uVincenzo ubhekana kanjani nesidingo sokunqoba ukucasuka futhi akhe ubudlelwano bothando nendodana yakhe uGiovanni? Yimuphi umyalezo ohlose ukuwudlulisela kubafundi ngalokhu?
JN: Ekuqaleni, uVincenzo ubhekana kabi kakhulu nalesi sidingo futhi wenza ngendlela enobuthi kakhulu endodaneni yakhe. Phakathi nenqubo yokubhala, ngazizwela mathupha umzabalazo wangaphakathi abhekana nawo nobuhlungu nokucasuka kwakhe. Nokho, kwakushukumisa ukumqondisa ekuzicabangeni kwakhe futhi kumenze abone ukuthi ubuhlungu bethu abuthetheleli ukubangela ukuhlupheka kwabanye. Ngalolu hambo, bengifuna ukuveza ukuthi isiqalo esisha semizwa singenzeka, inqobo nje uma sinesibindi sokubhekana namaphethini ethu obuhlungu.
4. Ngokubona kwakho, yini eyenza uhambo lukababa nendodana lokubuyisana luhambisane nabafundi ababhekene nezingxabano zomndeni?
JN: Ngikholelwa ukuthi izingxabano zomndeni zitholakala emhlabeni wonke njengosizi nokungafunwa. Kwesinye isikhathi, sonke siyaphoqeleka ukuthi sibhekane nokungavumelani nalabo esibathandayo. Ukuletha lezi zihloko emsebenzini wami kuvumela iqiniso lomuntu ukuthi lithinte umfundi nge-lens enethemba, linikeze isibuko sokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo siqu futhi libonise ukuthi, ngisho nasebudlelwaneni obunzima kakhulu, kukhona indawo yokuqonda nokukhula.
5- Ungumbhali othengisa kakhulu onemisebenzi eshicilelwe engaphezu kuka-60. "Indodana Angizange Ngiyithande" ihluke kanjani
JN: Ngibona sengathi kulo nyaka ngiziphonsele inselelo emikhakheni eminingi yomsebenzi wami wokubhala, ngibheka izindikimba ezingajwayelekile kimina. Indodana Engingayithandanga iyisibonelo salesi sigaba sokuhlola, ngoba, nakuba ngike ngakhuluma ngokuhlukumezeka komndeni ngaphambilini, akukaze kube yitimu eyinhloko. Imvamisa, ngibhala amanoveli ezothando, kodwa ukudala indaba egxile ngokuphelele othandweni lomndeni kwakuyisipiliyoni esiwumlingo futhi esicebisayo. Ngethemba ukuthi ngizokwazi ukuhlola lolu hlobo lokulandisa kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.
6- Ngabalandeli abangaphezu kuka-30,000 ku-Instagram, ubona kanjani ukubaluleka kokuba ababhali babe sezinkundleni zokuxhumana? Imvelo ebonakalayo ingaba kanjani umsizi wokukhiqizwa kwemibhalo?
JN: Inkundla yezokuxhumana ivumela abafundi ukuthi bazizwe bexhumene nombhali. Njengomlandeli wababhali abaningi, ngiyavuma ukuthi ngiyathanda ukulandela izindlela zabo nezindlela zabo zokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngamathuluzi wamanje wezobuchwepheshe, umhlaba obonakalayo uvula iminyango yokusabalalisa imisebenzi kubabukeli abaningi. Namuhla, izincwadi zami zifinyelela kubantu okungenzeka ukuthi abakaze bazazi ngaphandle kokuba khona kwedijithali. Amanethiwekhi omphakathi ngokungangabazeki abe umsizi ekwakheni nasekukhuliseni abafundi.
